The Big Idea
Here are more forms of adultery.
Pornography is adultery. And, it is at epidemic levels in America. There are all types of pornography and they are all adultery. Women in bikinis, topless women, women in lingerie, completely nude women, men and women having sex. . . There are so many types of porn that I can't list them all.
Satan has made it incredibly easy to access all types of porn at any time on the internet. You can also access it on your television.
Going to a massage parlor where sexual services are offered is adultery. Going to a strip club is adultery, even if you have no physical contact with the women. Of course, any use of a prostitute is adultery.
Engaging in sex with a member of the opposite sex(coworker, neighbor, friend, someone you knew years ago)is adultery.
Flirting with a member of the opposite sex also fits into the category of adultery. The only person on earth you can flirt with is your spouse.
If you are involved in any of these adulterous activities, your responsibility is to stop, repent, tell your spouse the truth, get into a recovery program which will include personal therapy and a sexual addiction group, find two accountability partners of the same sex, help your spouse heal from the hurt and damage you have caused, and build a new marriage with your spouse.
My book, I Don't Love You Anymore, will guide you step by step through the healing process as a couple.
Next week, what causes a person to get involved in sexual sin.