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Pursue Him

The Big Idea

The Bible teaches the wife to pursue her husband in the areas of affection and sex. 

The Teaching

God sends every wife a clear message in the Song of Solomon:  pursue your man in the physical area. In the Song, guess which partner-Solomon or Shulamith-does more of the pursuing? It would have to be Solomon, right? Wrong!  It is Shulamith. Over and over again, Shulamith initiates physical intimacy. 

Shulamith talks about kissing Solomon and she kisses him.  She talks about being affectionate and she is affectionate with him.  She talks about making love and she makes love with him. I can't quote all the verses that show her pursuing because it would fill